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Celibacy and Family Disruption

Liberal Arts in Russia. 2013. Vol. 2. No. 1. Pp. 21-48.
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Emaletdinov B. M.
Bashkir State University
32 Z. Validi Street, 450076, Ufa, Russia
Email: ouen@bk.ru

Abstract

Causes for celibacy, divorces and successful marriage are discussed in the article. Absence of true love and inability to build and keep it are the main reasons for family disruption. Amorousness, immature love and various forms of false or flawed love substitute the true feeling. It is caused by increased women’s independence, loss of mutual understanding and trust (due to infidelity or jealousy), incompatibility of characters or values. Celibacy is often conditioned by physical disability, revaluation of freedom and independence, huge requirements to partners, consumer attitude to life, infertility, alcohol and drug abuse, abnormalities in personality and sexuality.

Keywords

  • • celibacy
  • • family disruption
  • • family
  • • marriage
  • • love
  • • sexual attraction
  • • sex
  • • jealousy
  • • infidelity
  • • divorce

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